Workplace stress is highly personal. Some people thrive in fast-paced or mentally challenging jobs such as police officers, nursing and air-traffic controllers. These are stressful jobs where making a mistake can put people’s lives at risk.
The rest of us likely would not last a day in such high-pressure environments.
However, that does not mean our jobs are less stressful. Every job has its own kind of stress. There could be short deadlines, endless paperwork, or the occasional angry customer. There may be meetings that drag on for hours or issues that pop up that need our attention. All of these things can put us even more behind. All of these things can cause stress.
In other words, it is not just the job that can create stress, it is also the way a person responds to the pressures and demands of each workplace demand that makes them stressed. Not surprisingly, people respond to stress differently. The way they respond depends on their personality and their workplace culture.
Some short-term effects of stress include:
n Shallow breathing.
n Trouble sleeping.
n Upset stomach.
Long-term constant stress can increase the risk for:
n Heart disease.
n Back pain.
n Lasting muscle aches and pains.
n A weakened immune system.
Stress can also affect your mind. It can impair your ability to focus and use your imagination. Stress also increases the chance that you will make mistakes because you are not thinking clearly.
Constant stress can affect your emotions and behavior. It can make you grouchy, impatient, less excited about your job, and even depressed.
So what do you do about work-related stress? Here are some tips to help you cope:
When you are in a high-pressure situation, examine your train of thought to see if it is adding to the stress you feel.
Are you imagining a far worse outcome than is likely? Is the project or situation likely to affect your job approval, reputation, or income? Are you really out of your league? Or are the immediate demands really more of a challenge than a disaster in the making? Once you have asked yourself these questions, you just might find out that you are adding to your stress by over thinking a situation. Deep breath and focus on the task at hand.
Manage your time
Correct time and priority management can reduce a lot of workplace stress. Start each day by making a to-do list of tasks, calls to make, and e-mails to write. Prioritize the list according to tasks you must do, those you would like to do, and those that can wait.
Do not schedule too much and always build in time for interruptions. When you demand too much time of yourself, you get frustrated with others who may need you which will add more stress to your day.
Take a break
Hourly mini-breaks where you stretch shoulders, back, and neck can provide physical stress relief. This can reduce mental stress.
Lunch is often skipped at the expense of more stress. It is important to take lunch if you can.
Stop promising to do more than you can handle. Be polite as you say, “With the workload I have, I can’t take on more at this time.” It is acceptable and good practice to know your limits. Be good to yourself.
Every day, plan to spend some time at rest, but not asleep. Sit in a comfortable chair, close your eyes, and relax your muscles. Then focus on breathing regularly as you keep repeating one simple word aloud or silently. This might be a word such as “peace,” “relax,” or “om.” Keep doing this until your muscles and mind are relaxed.
Try it, you might be surprised.
Try muscle relaxation
Try this relaxation exercise:
n Sit or lie down, if you can, and close your eyes.
n Starting at your head, tense your face by clenching your teeth and furrowing your brow. Hold the tension for 5 seconds. Then release it.
n Next, tense your shoulders by bringing them up to your ears. Hold for 5 seconds. Then release.
n Next, tense your arm muscles. Hold for 5 seconds. Then release.
n Continue to tighten and release each group of muscles in your body until you reach your toes.
n Focus on the warmth and heaviness of your body as you relax. Breathe gently for a few moments. Then open your eyes.
Sit or lie down and close your eyes. For 5 to 10 minutes, imagine you are in a place you love. This may be the beach, the mountains, or the house you grew up in. Breathe slowly and deeply as you imagine what you see, feel, hear, taste, and smell in your special place. You can enhance this if you have a sound machine that plays the waves at the beach, birds singing or crickets chirping or whatever it is that you would like to focus on during your “time away.”
Breathe slowly and deeply
n Lie flat on your back with your eyes closed. Place your feet slightly apart.
n Rest one hand above your belly button. Put the other hand on your chest.
n Breathe in through your nose and breathe out through your mouth. Do this until you have emptied most of the air from your lungs.
n As you slowly count to 4, gently inhale, making your stomach rise. Pause for 1 second.
n Then as you slowly count to 4, gently exhale, letting your belly slowly fall. Pause for another second.
n Repeat 10 times.
Eat a healthy diet and exercise regularly
A healthy diet rich in whole foods, fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean protein may reduce stress. Having lots of caffeine, sugar, and alcohol can increase it.
Many studies have found exercise reduces stress. Aerobic exercise works best for most people. This includes running, swimming, or brisk walking. Yoga, Pilates, tai chi, or simple stretching can also help. They help create a calmer, meditative state.
Talking with a family member or friend outside of work about the issues that cause your stress at work can help you put things in perspective. You may be able to explore solutions and ways to cope together. This may sound strange, but sometimes just talking to someone can make you feel better even if you do not actually come up with a solution or get the answer to something that you may be looking for.
If you have tried these self-help methods, but continue to be highly stressed, it is perfectly acceptable to reach out and talk with a mental health provider who specializes in stress management.
Life is faster than ever and stress is inevitable, but you deserve to be happy and live your best life. Take charge and do not sweat the small stuff!
This article is a collaborative effort from UR Medicine’s Health Matters and Noyes Health Wellness.